Monday, April 6, 2009

reflection

Juz read xy's blog post. Have a sudden urge to blog too.

I realised that her dreams are similar to those that I had when I was a JC student. Wanting to work/travel overseas, getting a high paying and good prospect job, travel the world etc. But that was what I had planned for myself, not including anyone.

As I grow, I realised my dream changes. What I have in plan now is very different from what I used to have when I was in my 17 and 18. My dreams are more realistic I guess. Maybe dreams change when u have found someone. Life values can change as well. Instead of travelling the world alone, I want to travel the world with the one I love. The plan of settling down a few years down the road, makes having a stable job a very impt aspect. E.g Banking is a very glamorious job, but it has long working hrs. But with so many ppl in that field, r u v sure that u will be a high flyer? In times of economic downturn, and when u r in ur 40s, arent u afraid of being retrenched? In this time and age, there is no job that will last u for a lifetime. But at least, there are lower risk jobs.

For now, I envision myself to settle down with you. I realise how not easy it is to find a house of an ideal location. But I m sure we'll find it :). We shall travel the world together :)

I very xiao nu ren hor? is it gd or bad? but at least i m happy now :)