Friday, October 2, 2009

Mistakes

Everyone makes mistakes. No one is a saint in this world. But mistakes can sometimes be a learning lesson for us, letting us know what we actually want or what are the areas we should change or improve on, making us a better and happier person.

Sometimes when I look back, I would wonder why I accept that or make that decision in the past. Not that it affects me now, but I just couldnt believe that that was me in the past. I figured out that maybe I have changed, or more importantly, I have really grown up. More mature and realistic in thinking and most importantly, I know what I want in life. So sometimes a mistake might not be too bad a thing after all.

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Just went back to school for around one mth. Apparently, many things have been happening during our practicum mths. I have heard a of a few relationship problems amongst my fellow frens. One of which involves goals in life between a couple. I agree that a couple needs to have similar life goals in order to sustain a relationship. The goals need not be exactly the same. But at least they have to be similar. After knowing all my frens' problems, I started to get paranoid myself. That very night, I asked Dear if we have similar goals in life and what exactly are his life goals. We had actually talk about this very long ago. But just to verify that they are still valid, I asked him again. As usual, he pinched my nose and said "you are getting paranoid again". Yah. I must agree that I am. But the happenings, or rather stories, reminded me that happiness should not be taken for granted.

May happiness will always be with me :D