My colleague asked me, "so are you looking forward to moving into ur new house?"
I replied, "yes of cos!"
Colleague: "so you are ready to settle for married life!"
I know that there are some couples who have worries about staying together after marriage. They might even have phobia for it and thus some might even need counselling. Living together means having to give and take. Compromise and complement one another where ever possible. Marriage, of cos, is not a ned full of roses. But somehow, I am still excited about it. In fact, I m looking forward to it. Just that our love nest will take some time to be completed ( prob 1.5 yrs or 2 yrs including renovation).
I was once told by a colleague, the best way to find out if u and ur bf or gf can stay together peacefully is to go on a holiday toge. In this way, you get to know what are his or her living habits and you will find out what ur threshold level is for things u cant accept or accomodate. this is actually quite true.
Marriage life is a new beginning for everyone. Just like wat a peranakan culture states, marriage is the time when life really begins.
