It exam period now, aka tchr's happiest time.
This month has been, and is going to be, quite eventful. Dearie and I have finalised on our wedding date. Basically we cant get it done using tong sheng as the issue for 2012 will only be out next yr ard aug or sept. By that time, most of the hotels would have been taken up. Thus, w/o much choice (since Dearie's side insisted on calculating), we engaged a geomancer to calculate it based on our Bazi. So now we have gotten the date. What we need to do now is to secure the booking in the hotel we want. But the booking for 2012 is not open yet and this is making me v paranoid (being a typical s'porean - kiasu).
I have a hotel in mind. But based on the no. of tables we r going to have, that hotel is no longer my option. The price of the wedding banquet is mind blogging, esp when we have so many tables! There was a suggestion of putting the wedding in 2013 so that we got more time to save up. If you know its so expensive, why have so many tables? So our house will be empty for 1 yr rite (as we will be getting our keys in 2012)? I just dun get it and I am damn irritated! I know its out of good will. I understand. But there is a better way of solving to prob rather than pushing the date further so that can book more tables rite? To some, one yr doesnt matter. But to us (or rather, me), it matters alot. Why not compromise on the no. of tables instead??? We are the ones getting married anyway. Argh!!! There must be a way of prioritizing the guest list. But luckily Dearie has decided to have in in 2012 anyway.
Getting married is definitely not easy. esp the process involves so many ppl. Its worst when one side is more open-minded while the other wants to follow the tradition.
No matter what, I still love Dearie :D
Going to meet the wedding planner tmr. Hopefully it can be settled soon.
