Do you know wat u really want in life?

Lp, Sf and I were having dinner after our KTV sessions weeks ago and we were having a discussion on whether we know what we really want out of our lives. Most of us dunno what we really want and what we want to be and we are still in the midst of searching. I m nowhere different. In fact, I also dunno what I want to do. Do I want to remain in the same line for life? Then I mentioned about other things besides career. My priority in life is not my work. which is true. To me, what is more impt are my love ones, my family. A job is basically there to sustain the daily needs. I think I m more family oriented. To some, I m seem very xiong wu da zi. But what's the point of being v successful in career and there is no one there to share the joy wif u? or worse, the family is in a mess? There is still a traditional or conventional part of me. I think my hubby should be more successful in career and earning more than me. In that way, I will feel more secure. :p