I was looking through the photos in FB and found that more and more of my friends are getting married. Even my pri sch frens. This is not surprising as we r at our marriageble age now. This makes me wonder, how come ppl are getting married at a much younger age than I expected? We are 25 now. We still can wait for 2 to 3 more yrs before ringing the wedding bells rite?
Looking through the photos can make one envious of cos :) wonder how would mine be like in future. there are some advantages of being married. One of them will be able to see one another everyday. Ever since both of us started working, the times we get to see one another has reduced. Luckily Dear's work place is nearer to my house as compared to his. that's y he could occassionally come over to my house and acc me. thus if we r staying together (after we r married) we will be able to see one another everyday. Dear sometimes asked, "why dun we get married first?". I would counter ask him where we would stay. Then he would reply, "my house!". Then I would tell him if he doesnt mind staying in my house, I wont mind getting married now.
The thing is, I dun wanna stay with in-laws. I wan a house which will belong solely to both of us. My family living habits are so different from Dear's. I can use laptop while watching TV. I on my air-con very nite. I can do watever i want and I feel so much as ease at my own house. There is bound to have conflicts if there are differences in living habits. One more thing, I dun do housework at my own house. If I stay with other ppl, I will be forced to do it (of cos u will feel paiseh for not doing it rite). If we have our own house, we can do watever we want e.g. cuddling in sofa to watch tv. How to do that in front of the parents rite? Besides that, we can spend more quality time together, have our very own private moments. :D
Our house will be ready in 2010. 2 more yrs to go. But its still better than buying BTOs which will only be ready in 5 years time. Thus its a good thing that we bought a DBSS. By the way, BTOs are not necessarily cheaper. The one at Dawson is much more ex than The Peak @ Toa payoh, the one that we bought. Getting married includes wedding banquet, honeymoon etc etc and these equate money. So we can use the 2 yrs to save up more money!
Cant wait for 2012 to arrive! Oh wait, where is my proposal ring??? :P
